Perspective towards any condition, situation, person, object (call it by whatever name you like) is the key to what you want as the end result. Every relationship will change only and only if we decide to change. Change is a word which many people do not like but at the same time they do not understand that change is the most beautiful word as change means there is more instore for you to grow. Change is inevitable and so is your expansion and growth. Change of place, people, relations, health brings forth opportunities of growth and its our perspective towards that change that decides what we want as the end result. Fear of losing the current things or relations due to a change in external ecosystem is what builds the resistance towards change within us. However, we must remember that sometimes fear can be good. When we are afraid that things are going to get worse if we do not act, it will prompt us into action, but it is not good when we fear so much that it keeps us from doing anything. Any negative vibration or momentum within us is a good symptom for us to understand that we are going away from our desires and our end positive results that we desire for. However, we should not let that momentum rise to such an extent that we get drowned in it to such an extent that we are unable to swim through it and thats where the perspective towards any change or condition or situation arises. A slight shift of perspective will make a huge difference in the end result.
Many of you will disagree and question that change of perspective in extreme negative conditions is very difficult to obtain which is true but at the same time it is not impossible. If we only decide firmly that no matter what condition i am in, no matter with whom i am interacting, no matter where i am, no matter what the external circumstances are, i will not let the externals stifle and dig into me and bounce me off my good positive perspective of any negative situation, there is no force that can let your perspective and your end positive result from manifesting.
The only that is needed is firm belief on your positive perspective of any change, situation and a pursuit for good feeling thoughts from which ever place you are. Reaching for good feeling thoughts by doing something that makes you feel good, or remembering something or imagining something that makes you feel good and hence uplifts your vibration from that negative situation to the positive which is the end result. Regular practice of this is the best way to get positive results. Only when you are in positive frame of mind can you take the next steps of actions towards making the positive end results.
Hence, positive perspective is the key towards any situation to get the end positive result. Be stubbornly glad in any situation, which does not mean you are happy when things are going well, it mans that you are stubborn to fight your way to the light in all circumstances. We must have the stubborness to accept our happiness, our well being in the ruthless furnace of this world, in the darkest moments of our life. That is when we will get answers to all questions in our life, that is when we will have clarity of thought and that is when all that matters is how we feel in the moment and how easily we can thrive on this world despite whatever externals.